Monday, October 29, 2012

CHRISTMAS CRAFT & VENDOR BENEFIT

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 1ST

9:00AM - 1:00PM

PLYMOUTH HEIGHTS CHRISTIAN REFORMED CHURCH

1800 PLYMOUTH AVE SE, 49506



This craft and vendor show is a fundraiser to support our family moving to Tanzania, Africa through Christian Reformed World Missions in July 2013.

Crafters and vendors will include:
* Blessings Unlimited
* 31
* Miche
* Tupperware
* Just Jewelry
* Lia Sophia
* Tastfully Simple
* Oragami Owl
* Scentscy
* Premiere
* Life Expressions
* Bring them Joy
* Pampered Chef
* LaVa Babies
* and MORE are being added all the time!

There will also be home crafted goods, such as beaded jewelry, handmade cards, hair clips/bands for kids, knitted and crocheted kids hats, sweater mittens, baked goods and MORE!

Come start your holiday shopping while supporting a GREAT CAUSE!

If you're interested in having your own booth, there are a few spots available. Email me at gretchendriesenga@gmail.com for more information and an application.

Friday, October 26, 2012

Hope Update

We had our 6 month appointment with the geneticist this week. We were there for over an hour going over updates, checking her out, wondering, planning. I love this doctor. While the first time, it was hard to hear him describe Hope's features with such medical terms, he always mentions how cute she is and that seems to help. :) We spend about 20 minutes with the genetic counselor, and then the doc comes in and spends over 30 minutes with us. It was probably closer to 45 with Isaac interjecting and wanting HIS head measured, and HIS arm length checked, etc. They are very patient over there, that's for sure.

While Hope's growth curve for height, weight and head circumfrance all continue to grow parallel to one another,  her head circumfrance continues to be off the charts. We hope each appointment that the gap will begin to close and her head growth slows down, but that's not the case yet. The doc noticed a few new things, but nothing that would ease him into a diagnosis of any kind. So, we still don't really know if we're working with anything at all, or something that has a real name. We will likely be getting a Microarray test done soon, which is a simple blood test that will determine what Hope's chromosones look like - if there are mutations, additions or deletions from what should be. About 10-20% of these tests turn up helpful info, so it's likely it won't do a whole lot of good, but with insurance covering it all, worth the shot.

In addition to the geneticist, we met with one of the speech therapists one on one this week. She brought up her thoughts about Hope's development and wondered if she  might have Childhood Apraxia of Speech (Apraxia info) rather than just a delay. Reading through the info, it seems very likely. She and the other therapists are going to pay specific attention to her in the next few playgroups and do a little diagnostic work with her to see that's what it is. If it is, the playgroup we're in now (Hanan "It Takes Two" program - 2 1/2 hours a week) is good, but not sufficient. It would require much more intentional work with her to bring her up to speed.

The next few week to a month will likely bring more answers in both of these arenas - which may or may not be connected.

I continue to feel a peace about it all - knowing that God has made my little girl as his beautiful daughter and that we are doing all we can to see if there is more we should be doing or not.

Monday, October 22, 2012

Life & Death

It's been amazing to me that in the last few years whenever there is a death, there is often a birth near to it. My grandma died 10 days after Hope was born. Two dear friends had babies the same week as another dear friend lost twin girls at 20+ weeks. Life and death are obviously always happening, and it is a sweet reminder that the Lord is sovereign over them both. Death is never easy, but praise God that it's not final and there is so much hope found in Christ.

Three years ago today I miscarried. And today, while I still think about that little one we lost, I look down and see this ginormous belly ready to pop...I am in awe of the gift of Hope and this baby that God has graciously given to us (that we hope to meet ANY day now!). I am reminded today of God's goodness, faithfulness, provision, comfort, and peace.

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Unexpected blessings

Blessing #1: A couple weeks ago, a former youth group student texted me saying that she was coming to watch our kids the next night so Marc and I could go out and she wouldn't take no for an answer. So she did. Marc and I used a gift card for dinner that we got LAST CHRISTMAS because we hadn't been out alone in so long. SO what we needed - especially before baby!

Blessing #2: A friend graciously offered to keep my kids for a few hours just becasue I was having a no-good, very bad day. I got to do some errand-running kid-free and clear my head for a bit, which was SO necessary. She also listened to me cry and vent and question and break down. It was exactly what I needed.

Blessing #3: While literally searching the online garage sale site for a fall jacket & jeans for Isaac (his winter one is down & really poofy/big) besides his non water-proof fleece, I get a message from a friend asking if I needed a mid-weight coat for Isaac. Um, yes please! Went over the next day & it's a perfect fit. Doens't stop there though. She then says, "Oh, he's a size 6, huh? Need any jeans?". Why yes, yes I do. All the ones I bought this summer he grew out of before he even wore. Came home with 6 pair of jeans, long sleeved shirts, shorts, short sleeved shirts, PJ's and a jacket. For free. Another amazing blessing.

Blessing #4: I let someone down. I messed up and hurt a relationship I value in the process. Through shame and tears, I apologized and was offered grace and forgiveness. That whole grace thing that Jesus tells us about - it's FOR ME TOO! What an ugly situation to remind me that I am in desperate need of Jesus (and others) grace as much as anyone else. It was humbling and ugly, and the pregnancy hormones did not help the day of sobbing that had commenced, but it was a beautiful reminder.

Saturday, October 6, 2012